Sex fantasies are part and parcel of being human, and the degree to which they appear has a wide range. They are private thoughts or fantasies that produce sexual arousal and can be influenced by personal experiences, errancies, and cultural contexts. They are often referred to as wet dreams. The following are some of the most commonly reported sexual fantasies that people have:
Dominant and Submissive Positions of Power Structure
Fantasy stories in which power and control change are frequent situations where one gets to be the dominant one and the other plays a submissive role. Activities that are included within the definition of an activity in BDSM include: Bondage, spanking and other forms of contact with other people in the BDSM community.
A state of dominance
Many people fantasise about being possessed or controlled by a partner. These dreams may involve being in a position to relinquish control and rely on the dominant partner.
Role Play: Doing the Role of Teacher and Student
Fantasies that involve power dynamics and authority figures, such as a scenario in which a teacher and student engage in sex, and the teacher takes on a dominant role.
Patient/Doctor Relationship
You take on the persona of the doctor, and your partner becomes the patient in a make-believe medical scenario. These hypotheticals often involve a check-up or a treatment with a sexual element.
Sightings of the “Unknowns”
Fantasies about having sex with a total stranger or a partial stranger, with a focus on anonymity and the thrill of not knowing.
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These are threesomes: three people participating together simultaneously or in turns with one person after another. That can cover a lot of genders and the dynamics when we mix them up.
Sex and Organisational Group
The few individuals displayed are participative members who follow the direction of sex club members and many times are merging beside the sex club patrons without having any game on a bed of any kind.
Swinger Swinging Open marriage The concept of an open marriage is a highly flexible model and takes so many different forms that it would be impossible and unrealistic to try to describe them all.
wet dreams in which partners are exchanged, or one has sex with other couples in an open, consenting space.
There is polyamory
Characters who are implied to be polyamorous also feature as sexual partners and romantic interests alternative to one another (considered from a base pair of 3) who may or may not have all partners in common.
simulations based on fiction and fantasy
Historical fantasy (based on real historical events and time periods)
fantasies which occur in different historical time periods or which involve people from certain time periods, such as the naval officer/farmboy examples above, are instances of this kind of fantasy.
Theological Works: Both science fiction and fantasy
These are the sorts of fantasies that mix in elements of science fiction or fantasy – aliens, superheroes, mythical creatures.
Certain Sexual Behaviours
Fetish of the Foot
Foot worship, licking toes and foot jobs would be examples of the kind of behaviour that can be used to elicit sexual arousal from the feet.
Uniforms and Personal Apparel
Wearing or seeing certain clothing or uniforms, like lingerie, a nursing uniform, or a military uniform, in your dream are a few cases in point of possible imaginary worlds.
Body Parts, Features & Traits
Excitation, either from a particular part of the body or features of the body.
Sex and the Metamorphosis
Switching of genders
Fantasies of altering or becoming one’s sex or of being of the other sex: these fantasies often involve the investigation of patriarchy and one’s own self-image.
Alternately Dressing
Taking pleasure in wearing opposite-sex clothing & becoming sexually aroused as a result of this.
Final Thoughts
Sexual desires are as varied and individual as people and often represent deeper needs, curiosity, and emotional requirements. These may be a good avenue to explore sexuality and have an idea of what one is into. It is important to remember that fantasies are part of every person’s sexuality and do not necessarily equate to a person’s actual desire to carry them out in reality. Open and honest discussions with partners around fantasies can lead to increased intimacy and improved sex, so long as all parties are comfortable with and consent to the conversation.