Using personal lubricant is one of the most significant strategies you can leverage to make installing a dildo more comfortable. This is true no matter the size, shape, or function of the dildo. You can find my past papers on lubricating sex toys by clicking on the link. These publications list how to use lubricant.
Note: I must insert something about cleanliness and hygiene. The dildo must be cleaned and is extremely important. This has to do with the cleansing measures outlined in the handbook following sexual intercourse, whereby sexual intercourse will indeed be risk-free.
Make sure the tip of the dildo is well lubed. This step is essential as it aids in minimizing any potential discomfort or pain that can emerge as it contributes to lessening friction and making the entry process easier. Using a lot of hot keys is the right amount of lubrication when you want to ensure that the surface is smooth. Then, the lubricant can also be applied in a circular motion to evenly cover the complete head.
The hand can be turned in order to spread the lubricant throughout the upper half of the shaft. This activity causes the lubricant to be spread more evenly down the shaft that will be in contact with the body. This allows you to enter the shaft in more ways, and the range you have is less, so it will get stuck in a painful, uneven lubrication. Try to rotate the hand in such a way that the coating is uniform as well as smooth.
So your fingers and the area around the vaginal entry should be covered in lube. The extra lubricant around the entrance further facilitates insertion. Massage the lubricant gently around the aperture until the area is adequately coated, then move on. This also helps to develop a surface that is more friendly and slippery throughout the first fingering with the dildo.
Lubricate both the inner and outer labia. Applying the lubricant to the labia helps not only to ensure that insertion is less uncomfortable but also reduces the chances of the tissue on the sensitive tissues being dragged or torn by the lubricant. When applying lubricant, use a gentle touch and coat both the inner and outer labia in the same way. This extra lube can help enhance things about the entire sexual experience and simply enjoying the insertion process with it being present.
Use your index and middle fingers to spread the labia open. Doing this opens up the vaginal entrance and makes it easier to enter into the dildo tube. Just do it slowly and lightly, and don’t try to make the person do this give it some discomfort or pain. By holding the labia steady with a gentle grip, you can have more control during insertion as well.
Gently insert and withdraw slowly so the moisture spreads evenly along the shaft. The slow and gentle pace of this movement not only serves to distribute the lubrication a little more evenly, it also allows the body to adjust to the feeling of the dildo more naturally. Start with slow, shallow motions, and gradually increase the depth and speed if that is comfortable for you. The body will thus be better able to adapt to the experience and so be less likely to feel pain or damage from it.
And yes, you can also do a twisting motion with the hand to help push it in. If you find straight thrusting isn’t as pleasurable or as successful as you’d like, this may give you a different type of sensation and may be beneficial for you. As you do this, give the shaft a little twist either clockwise or counterclockwise, being sure to add slight movements as you do this to keep a slow and controlled pace. This makes the dildo easier to insert into the body, and it adds more dimensions to the sex experience.