The task seems to come naturally to females, but males have some unique anatomical obstacles that require special treatment. As a result, strapping on can look and feel completely different depending on which sex you are. Let us get deeper and find out what all ways there are and what all factors are important to consider.
For males
T-strap harness or thong harness
Men should be very careful when they see a T-strap or thong-style wearable dildo harness. The first step (though this can be skipped, if it’s easier for some) is to stuff the penis and testicles to one side of the dildo’s wearable. This vulnerability requires some skill and careful tuning. All these have to be set up so that they are comfortable for the person to use. Lastly, if the placement is wrong, this could cause a host of aches ranging from tightness to chafing while worn. The gist is for there to be a middle ground that the male can move around in easily and pain-free while the harness is on. This particular kind of harness also has a certain degree of slack, or bend, to it (your mileage may vary if you’re super flexible), but one thing you want to make sure of when you’re “bending” is that your genitals are properly aligned, as you wouldn’t want to screw up blood flow or make things uncomfortable once the strap-on is in use. If the dick and balls are not aligned, this could lead to something that would be directly uncomfortable as well as awkward from an overall session standpoint with potentially a lot of active distracting, as well as negatively impede motion. The comfortable and useful aspect of the strap-on can be enhanced, at least in part, by allowing more of a natural paradigm of the male anatomy and the harness to merge through its appropriately placed embodiment. And then in this sense you can take a look at the design of the harness and what it is made out of. The risk of irritation due to pressure points is minimised as the softer, more elastic material for the T-strap or thong is better adapted to the neat contours of the body. Also, the comfort level can depend on the width and the size of the straps. Narrower straps might be more discreet (although potentially putting more pressure on the skin); wider straps are apt to distribute the load more evenly. I suggest for the guys to play with them and try them in different positions and angles to see what your body likes, as they are all shaped differently and we all ride in different ways.
Hollow-Core Dildo Option
Another viable option for men is to use a penis-shaped dildo with a hole in the core. To which the guy is able to slot his limp penis into the inner interior of the dildo. However, it must be mentioned that the porous construction of this one makes it completely impossible to wear if he is completely erect. The hollow interior lining is shaped to receive the penis when the penis is in a flaccid condition. When using this option, the male must be careful during insertion. His manhood needs to be snug in the cavity; otherwise, it’s way too loose. Some fine-tuning to the headphones may be required to achieve optimum fit. The quality and size of the interior will significantly reflect on the overall feeling of comfort. The hole matching perfectly with the individual’s anatomy for the measurement in question, a better and more enjoyable experience will be offered by a hollow core that is well-fitted. If the hole is too large or too small, that can be uncomfortable during use or even affect the dildo’s structural integrity. For example, the porous core could be too small and strangle the penis, causing discomfort or restricting blood flow. On the other hand, it would cause a loose fit if the porous core were too large, which is problematic because the dildo may not function properly or wobble. It is also beneficial for men to consider what the hollow-core dildo is made of. Using smooth and body-safe material (e.g., medical silicone) can make insertion and wearing much more comfortable. In addition, some hollow-core dildos are designed to include internally very stimulating or adjustable tension. The experience is even more personalised, and there are increased choices for comfort and getting off through these features. It’s important, however, to ensure any extra features are intuitive and easy to clean so you maintain satisfaction and hygiene.
With Double Straps or Open at the Bottom
If it’s open at the bottom due to open-bottom wearable dildos or two bands through the thighs, use can take some time to carefully put his cock and balls through. This design offers the non-traditional approach of fitting the male anatomy while still accommodating use of the strap-on. Just like with the other methods, placement is key. To prevent discomfort, the male should make sure that his penis is positioned in the hole exactly in the middle and not pressed or pulled back. Straps should be tightened for a snug but comfortable fit and to permit free movement of the genitalia and testes. For example, the harnesses may cause pain, impinge blood circulation, or have an enswathement feeling if too tight during moving. On the other hand, if the harnesses are too loose, the stability and effectiveness of the device might be diminished, as may be the chances of it becoming loose during use. It is important when considering this instance what is selected for such an orifice and the material and structure type of the harnesses. The comfort of the harnesses can be enhanced for more prolonged periods of use, e.g., by use of a soft, breathable, stretchable material. It provides better air ventilation and reduces the risk of contact skin rash. To ensure that it fits and works well, the size and shape of the aperture should be tailored to the user’s anatomy. Open-bottom models or two-strap designs, according to certain embodiments, may further comprise adjustable features, such as adjustability of the amount of aperture (e.g., hole in the photo mask) or the length of the straps. These components are configurable so that the needs and wants of the user can be tailored. E.g., if a user is larger, a little larger aperture or longer straps have to be provided to get a better and more secure fit. And it’s the position of the harnesses relative to the body that can also make or break the whole experience. The normal motion of the body can become restricted and/or straps can become uncomfortable (set too high or too low). As a result, it is advised that men prepare to adjust and try on the device before having sex to ensure the most comfortable and optimal fit.
In light of the purpose and fit
Sexperts also advise that you consider your intended purpose for the strap-on dildo and that it’s a good fit, no matter how it ends up getting on. The knowledge of how to insert the dildo is a must. The size of the prosthetic, its girth, circumference and size have to be well evaluated to avoid a prosthetic which is too long and thick to fit inside the body. The number 1 deciding factor, of course, is how big do you want your strap-on? It’s very important for people to take time to evaluate where they are physically and how comfortable they really are. For example, a dildo that is too thick or deep can be extremely painful to insert and therefore ruin any notion of fun. This could not only spoil the sex but also cause harm. On the other hand, a dildo that is smaller may not provide the desired level of stimulation if the user’s pussy has already been stretched. It is very important to do the groundwork and know the different sizes and cuts that are available in the market. This can mean reading in-depth descriptions of the product, reading customer reviews, or contacting a sex health professional or informed porn shop staff member. By becoming very knowledgeable and concerned with those particulars, men and women can increase the functionality and pleasure factor when using strap-on dildos. This provides a more pleasing sexual experience for everyone involved, whether it’s for intimacy or just something new to try for fun – the Forward by sexpert Nikki Morgan for an even better time! The erotic experience can, however, also be dramatically affected by a correct fit and the way the cock ring is worn. So it’s best that men invest quality time to go through such options, pick out the best strap-on dildo and the most suitable donning method, as it plays a big role in determining how much pleasure they can get from the act.